International Friendship Day #Chingu Selfie

Salam & Hye,

Mesti tau kan sape chingu dihatiku?

Well, sempena International Day of Friendship on 30th July every year ni, chingu telah berjaya menyelfiekan diri di pagi hari.

Even tak cukup semua sebab komitmen kebusyan kemelandaan, maka tak cukupla semua. But its ok, chingu sentiasa di hati.

Ni fresh pagi 30 Julai, 2015

Suka sangat kita benda-benda random camni..hehe

Ktorang memang tak la tetiba nak selfie macam ni sebelum ni, aku pun kebaruan je jadi ahli chingu ni seperti Ajet jua. Hehe, sebab diorang awesome and very the pleasant jadinya senang nak jatuh cinta. Day by day we share more and more memories together, being together ups and down. Sebenarnya all the unexpected things that happened tu yang get us closer. Trips that we went together. With them, i know that i am not alone. Diorang ni saaangat baik. *insertheartandsmiley*

Ini cukup corum sket la..tapi takde siqin.Takde Ajet gak.

Dua entiti yang sudah dikenalpasti tidak membahayakan ni adalah yang paling kerap melepak bersama among the chingus. *Love*

Thanks chingu for allowing me be part of your life journey. :) sayang lillahi taala.

Oh, dah alang-alang FRIENDSHIP Day. marilah kenali sahabat-sahabat lain yang dekat di hati.

Hey korang, #whenisthenextlepak yea?

Nak cukupkan semua tujuh orang memang harapan la nak cukup. Mesti ada yang tertinggal satu. Pastu bila cukup je, tak amik gambar pulak. Memang tak ade la semua. This bunch of group is reminds me of #GengBukit if you guys rajin scroll dalam arkib warung ni, InshaAllah jumpa la. Bezanya, geng yang tu i am the youngest one, sekarang pun semua dah kawen and ada anak,so sangat jarang la jumpa. This group almost same age semua.

Ni after second time jumpstreet, me and syira bawak jeans spare and terus tukar after tu. Sorry la Zaid nampak kepala je.Lol.

Diorang ni memang voice of reasons. Anything, just spill it out. About food, fashion, travel, gadget, economy, technology (they are all excluding me! (-_-)"), politics, education, love, life, artist's gossip semua. Maybe sebab two gender, so opinions and interest would be different. The way us and they think also different. Thats make us colourful, not rainbow ya! lol

Anytime je has something in mind, hamburkan je. Sampai tahap randomnya soalan, saiz kasut, saiz baju power spek mata pun jadi topik,  haha. Maybe because we have two clock systems, kat sini 3/4 am and everyone is asleep but that two Mr. Gentlemen baru 9 o'clock at night. Kalau tak boleh tidur still ada yang boleh diharapkan, provided they are not busy with assignment and those la.hehe

Ni jelas sket ada Zaid and Topek too. Yang the rest tu pun kawan-kawan juga. Mase ni kawen Hasbi and Ana.

And this group on the spot punya style, jommmmm aje semua.Even cant make it, we will still make it! gittew.

Last but not least, #AMT!

Tak akan ada tukar ganti my sisters tiga orang ni. Tak tau la nak describe how, dengan diorang dont have to explain much, we understand easily. 10 years of friendship and still counting. Dengan family diorang pun baik. Now sume dah kawen and have two adorable kids, Eza is expecting too. 

Kita mungkin bukan sahabat senang sama-sama tapi kita susah sama-sama. Sorang susah, everyone akan ada.

With them, i will be saaaangat manja and gedikkk. Cakap je nak makan apa, diorang turutkan. Nak apa je, diorang adakan. Nak gi mana, diorang bawakan.

Rindu Mary, Bedah and Kiah banyak daunnnnnn !!!! *nangisrindu*

 Tak dilupa geng sekolah yang masih close sampai sekarang tapi couldnt find any pic in this PC. Tipa', Lily, and Shasha since 2000 juga Nedy, Rehe, Aisyah, Punet, Atun, Sheshe, Mama, Pura and Ili since 2003. Geng Sibling Long, Ngoh, Kakdik, "Acu rindu korang". Steamboat Crew, MM Family, La Diva, PnT'PPPC clan, Reg family, Resilia Team (sayang sangat)..Eh, tak tersebut la semua. Lagi-lagi untuk orang yang was away from home since 12 years old, memang countless la friends.

So... 

Happy International Friendship Day

you all............!!!

P/S: Mama was once said, "Have many friends could make you weak, choose wisely and appreciate those that appreciate you".

The Confession

Salam & Hye

ye,

Have you guys tried making any confession to anyone?

Bagitau kawan that kau yang jatuhkan kasut sekolah dia yang baru kapur?
Bagitau cikgu yang kau calarkan kereta dia sebab bengang dia denda kau jalan itik keliling sekolah?
Bagitau parents yang kau sebenarnya lepak shisha dengan kawan-kawan sampai pagi dekat kedai arab bukannya study group dekat rumah member?
or
Bagitau your crush about your 'crushing' towards him/her?

Confession paling epik pernah aku dengar was during mama's reunion last year. Tu reunion high school dia and you guys can imagine how many years since they left high school. Its ages ok. They decided to did it at the schools canteen a week after raya and all families were invited including teachers yang mengajar diorang dulu.

This one pakcik as a MC on that day make a confession dekat cikgu subjek sains pertanian. aku pun tak tau subjek tu, probably back then, subjeknya lain ikut keperluan kan. 

He said, " saya nak mintak maaf dekat cikgu sebab selalu curi telur ayam cikgu, yang hilang tu semua saya yang curi ". Semua orang gelak, after almost 30 years baru bagitau. The cikgu gelak je. Sape nak marah kan after ages. hihihi. 

Tapi,

Bila cakap pasal topik ni, orang akan kaitkan dengan dengan confession to a guy or a girl.
Tak ada salahnya pun buat confession ni even i always advise my friends to do the same sebab its better you confess and got rejected dari tak confess and tak dapat ape-ape.At least bila confess, ada la chance kan.

But when it comes to you urself, memang easier said than done. Jangan main serkap je sebab sebenarnya kan effect a good relationship that already built up with your crush. Confidence tu amat penting dan lapangkan rasa bila dah buat. Ready for any consequences, positive or negative, just live with it!

Here's the TIPS on how to tell your crush you like him when you lack of confidence.

1) Make sure you really have a crush on him
Ni point paling penting sebab if the confession turns out positively, then baru kau realize yang apa kau rasa tu tak betul, dah haru biru jadinya. Melainkan to your best-tingtong-masak sangat perangai ko-buddy-crazy-damn best friend. Which i did, but later on la i put here the screenshot k. Dia boleh jawab:

    "Ok, ko bet dengan sape ni suruh terus terang sangat ni? ape ko nak cerita ni, cepat!"

Gigih plak aku nak kena buat macam-macam ayat nak suruh dia percaya yang aku serius. Then i finally told him that, thats not the thing la. Ade benda lain nak cerita. Pastu, tak henti-henti tiap-tiap hari text paksa aku cerita, aku buat tak tau je. Last-last dia tak tahan sangat, call aku tengah-tengah malam, paksa aku cerita. Stress aku! haha.

    [Weyh, ko keje sini la, ade geng aku nak ajak lepak]

2) Find out about his interest
Important! Then you know when is the right time to confess. What conversation can leads to it etc. Normally, when really had a crush on, you akan ambik tahu.

3) Buch Up! 
Gamble je and just go! 

4) He doesn't read your thoughts.
Oh, tak ada telepati yer. Say it! For a girl, yes! A guy should clearly say it that he likes her. Girl dont reads your mind, dont bother your hint or gestures, they want a word! But a guy, without you notices, they observe you. (-_-)". Macam dialog drama MAID when the husband said," i know, the way you react, the way you talk to me.."

5) Become his friend first
Dont admit to the strangers. Yes, you can actually but tengok kegentelman cara approach la.gentle tak gentle kan. One thing for sure, dont friendzoning the friendship, make it open.

6) Dont tell him you like him on a social media.
A big no-no. Face to face is the great choice.

7) Just DO IT!
Dont think twice, tawakal and buck up!

Risiko dia, its either putuslah friendship or positively to a serious relationship or become awkward for along time.



Kat sini, meh aku share on what do you do after confessing to a guy. aku cilok from www.quora.com

Salah satu answer yang menarik sket aku rasa :-

I am guessing that you are a girl. Not that I am judging or anything, but then the answer varies by leaps and bounds.

Okay, so now assuming you are a girl, let's say you have told the guy that you so dearly love about how you feel and how he means a lot you. If he looks shocked it could be because 

1.He doesn't like you back and probably even tried telling you in the past about it via his actions, which explains why it would be bewildering to him that you proposed knowing very well how he perceived this whole thing.

2.He is shocked but in a surprised way. This usually happens when the thing we expect the least takes place and it changes EVERYTHING. 

3.Last but not the least of the possible scenarios could be that he is gay, which is then a no brainer as to why he is shocked at the very thought of such a situation actually happening.

Anyways, coming to how you could persuade him and make him see your point of view. 

1.If he doesn't like you, there is little you can do. Be there for him, get to know him better, be his 4 am buddy, and so on. You get the point! Believe me, if you stick close to him he will sooner or later fall for you. More often than not guys have this thing where they fall for not the prettiest or smartest or most intelligent of women, but for the one that cares for them no matter what. 

2.If he is only shocked in a deeply surprised way, he will come around a lot sooner than you thought. You will probably hate to hear this, but all you can do in such a case is wait! Give Time some Time :)

3.And if it is the last of the above mentioned scenarios. I have only two words for you! Move on!

So, to you guys. Go and make your confession. Sebab one thing for sure, ko akan rasa lega. Everything will get better. Ko akan rasa relax and tenang and yakin, perancangan Allah adalah yang terbaik dan hanya berserah segalanya pada-Nya. 

Some people choose to confess after actually the rasa is off already because any possible answer from other party tu kita kan boleh terima, positif of negatif. Ada orang, tak sabar-sabar nak cakap. Cuma yang penting, after that, give him or her space, dont push. Elok-elok orang tu terima baik je, terus rasa nak lari jauh. Be matured and cool.

All the best to all the confessors-to-be! :)

XoXo

P/S: tunggu hingga ke hujung tahun.

        Haila la awak, 3x panas kita tau!

       Damn!

Buka Puasa Part 1

Salam & Hye,

Selamat berpuasa.

Jangan sia-siakan 10 mlm terakhir ni.

As for every ramadhan pun, akan ada buka puasa ramai-ramai ktorang dekat umah Ayah Ngoh since kiranya dia yang paling dewasa la ada dekat area KL/Selangor ni. Kalau sebelum ni, aku akan sampai tengahari and tolong ape yang patut. Malam akan tidur dekat sana, esoknya tengahari akan balik rumah la. Sekarang, memang aku dah duduk dengan dia so, kita jadi tuan rumah jugak la.

After 7 years plus, the Kids (Mok Teh's kids) for the first time balik beraya dekat Malaysia as sekarang diorang stay dekat Scotland. They will spend 2 weeks puasa dengan ktorang before ke Penang kampung Pakteh and then going back to Terengganu untuk raya.

So, Weekend haritu kita buka puasa sama-sama. Both days sabtu dan ahad, penat weyh but best sebab ramai-ramai kan. Dah memang habit suka melepak sampai tengah malam tu dah jadi sebati dalam diri, dengan aku-aku sekali tak tidur malam, lepas subuh baru tidur. Kalah orang jetleg. muahahahaha.

Jumaat malam, kita ke Pasar Borong Selangor yang bukak 24 hours, senang. Murah pun murah.

Menu wajib adalah bubur lambuk terengganu yang ada ikan, pucuk paku dan segala mak nenek dalam tu. Kebetulan, aku balik Terengganu a week before tu bawak balik banyak daun-daun bubuk lambuk memang banyak chengoh buat. Even jumaat tu pun dia ada bawak pegi ofis bagi dekat kawan-kawan ofis. Sabtu petang tu pun, pergi hantar dekat rumah kawan-kawan rapat and jiran-jiran dekat terengganu yang sama jugak dah settledown dekat KL. Itu yang best ramadhan ni, mesti akan ada makan-makan dengan semua kaum kerabat. We consider untuk masak je hari sabtu tu, but for ahad kita tempah je nasi arab dekat Sri Petaling.

Ahad lagi ramai yang ada, ada Kakna jugak and kebetulan Aalia invited Esqandar, for the first time officially introduce pada family. Kalau aku jadi Es, ketaq lutut bak hang. Ramai gila dengan bising sangat, tau-tau je la ktorang ni memang gelak tak pernah control, mulut main lepas je, nak tanya ape tanya je. Masa solat magrib jemaah dekat bawah, aku and kakna yang cuak. Buatnya, tetiba siapa-siapa cuit Es suruh jadi Imam, kalut jugak tu. Memang boleh, tapi mestila cuak kan. Alhamdulillah, everything went well.

Si Amni buat lawak dia pergi menari Sakitnya Tuh Di Sini. Ya Allah dia punya joget tu tak boleh blah. Budak-budak semua sugar rush malam tu, ktorang sumbat cake, kit kat, chocolate. Tu yang macam-macam hal tu.

Kakna dengan Abg Jiman pulak buat lawak antarabangsa malam tu, Aalia and Es keluar gi beli ais time tu, so diaorang ambik kesempatan tell the whole story yang Es ni study together with my friend dekat UK. Dah tak pasal-pasal cerita kita yang tak berkait ni keluar. Pening aku dengan diorang. Ok dah tutup cerita pasal tu.

As lepak mamak tu wajib, after golongan atasan and golongan babies sudah kembali ke sarang masing-masing. Kita yang remaja dan muda-mudi ni ngeteh la. Bawak the Kids gi mamak and lets them order themselves. Roti canai and milo ais je diorang reti order. Nak maggi sup taknak sayur kene pakai translator dah la.Kekekeke. Around 12 plus kita dah balik sebab aku pun nak kena hantar Nadhi balik Kolej. Hasif pun tunggu kawan dia pick up nak balik Kolej jugak. Nasib baik ada Farah temankan hantar Nadhi, tu pun guard tu dah tanya dah kenapa lambat. Budak Kisas balik Kolej pukul 1am, rare sangat ni. Balik lepak lagi dengan Farah.Tak sedar diri nak kerja esoknya.

Nasib baik dekat ofis tak mengantuk, tapi balik malam tadi, Tidur terus lepas buka. Pukul 10 baru bangun balik. This coming weekend ada lagi another session. Kali ni family belah ktorang pulak, maybe ada bbq kali ni, sebab ramai pembakar yang sudi mengasap-apikan diri. Ahad, inshaAllah akan iftar dengan chingus. Jumaat malam, kita nak lepak Bangsar. Lepas tu bilanya projek biskut raya ni??? Cepat cakap..Tinggal angan-angan je la. Azam tiap kali weekend nak bake, dan setiap kali itu jugalah, plan last minit pergi lepak ngeteh ngopi yang jadi keutamaan.

Gambar?

Huhu, tak sempat nak transfer from diorang lagi, busy makan, gambar pun lupa, yang ada dalam phone ni macam kurang wajar diupload. Takpe lah. Sebab tak ade gambar, kita bagi resepi salad arab untuk tatapan semua yer :)

Bahan-Bahan

Sebiji bawang besar

Sebiji Tomato

Daun Sup

Garam

Perahan lemon

Black pepper

Olive Oil

Caranya

Potong dadu semua bahan-bahan

Masukkan garam

Sesudu olive oil

2-3 sudu perahan lemon

Black pepper

Kacau, cover dengan plastic wrap dan chillkan

(Better jangan berair sangat, so agak agak je la letak bahan bahan)

The taste has to be masam-masam and masin siket je.

Sedia untuk dihidang.

Sesuai makan dengan nasi arab, chicken grill or lamb grill.

Ok, bye. nanti minggu depan kita merapu lagi k.




P/S: That leads to the overnight chatting and the confession.
       Betul lah Ramadan mengajar umatnya jujur, terlampau jujur payah jugak.
       *lappeluhdekatdahitapihatirasalegadanlapang*
     

P/SS: Hey you, senget kan! *dushdush*